I am linking up some hilarious bloggers Jake and Holly with a letter to myself at 21. I know I am still hanging onto my 20s (last year!) but my life is much different than it was 9 short years ago. I need to write a letter to my snotty, bratty 16 year old. Yikes!
Dear 21 year old Carrie,
You are finishing up your college life. Enjoy it! Life after college is hard, good but hard. You studied
hard enough and graduated in 4 years. Way to go! Now it is the real world.
You are single (but not for long) and you have a great group of girlfriends who are all single. Stay close to them. They made the memories of college great! The days of nothing to do and nowhere to go are almost over and you will almost wish them back. The summer days of laying out all day until your "dysfunctional family" made plans will soon be just a funny memory.
You were not crazy in college but your friends helped make some great stories that will last forever. This is (almost) the last time you will live in a house with only girls. Be thankful. Husbands are great but your college house doesn't compare in different ways.
You graduate college and move back to DFW. Be thankful that your parents let you live with them until you find an apartment. The apartment was great at the time but it is SHADY! Dark hallways and dim parking lots were not in the apartment brochure. You and Ashley survived. You have your ups and downs with Ashley but she is still someone you can call if you need anything. She will come to your rescue one night after you have a baby with a meal in hand and you will remember how great she is.
Stop tanning! You get darker naturally WITH sunscreen! Don't waste away your skin or money. Still keeping my fingers crossed that we did no damage then.
You are not fat! After your second baby will come a new transformation where you lose 50 lbs and you will wish you still had your college body.
Keely was your ACU roomie and after college roomie. She is great. There are times were you don't understand her but she will make you laugh. Live up the days when you lay in her bed and discuss the night before. Again, the all girl time will slip away and you will be a tad sad.
Appreciate ACU. It is a great college where you will make lots of memories. Your college loans will be paid off at some point. You were lucky enough to get into a great school and have parents who helped you financially stay there. Live it up! You will miss it!
As for your parents, you have learned how wonderful they are. Not because they have let loose on you since you are almost an adult but because you have grown up in the last few years and realize how great they are! You will not fully appreciate them until you have your own kids but you know they are great.
Your 21st birthday is great! A girls' night out in Dallas is a blast. Pete's Piano Bar does deliver. And no, you did not dance on a table like some friends trued to convince you did.
But the best part of being 21 is that guy you will meet the weekend after your 21st birthday. That bald, cute guy you meet through friends on Jason's patio will one day be the man you pick to marry and have a family with. He is fun to have out but he is also caring, hardworking and will love your babies like no one else can. You two will make it through some hard times like moving, losing loved ones, and having a sick baby. But the key is that you two will make it and there is no one else you would rather battle this world with!
So to sum it up, don't try to rush life. You will get a job and you will marry but for now enjoy your easy life and the fact that you can pee and take a shower alone in silence. That will come to end in about 9 years.